“If you love a flower
that lives on a star, it is sweet to look at the star at night. All the stars
are a-bloom with flowers.” – The Little Prince
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| Me with my beautiful, blooming rose :-) |
She entered our room on the first day of classes, a shy and
sweet little thing, with bright eyes and a lovely smile. She seemed quite proud
of her purple Elsa dress - she held the edges of her skirt and swayed slightly.
Her name was Princess, her yaya shared. I stepped forward to greet her, and to
invite her to create a costume with the pieces of fabric we had laid out for
the children’s use. She promptly burst into tears. We soon began the class. Her
tears escalated into sobs, the sobs morphed into loud wails thus causing my
co-teacher, Neil, to take her out for a breather. She no longer wished to
return after that. And so ended our first day.
Princess arrived the next workshop day in a blue Elsa dress.
She took a few, tentative steps from the door, looked around the room and the
classmates that were calling her, and was quiet. I held my breath, waiting for
her reaction. And yes, she burst into tears again. This time, however, and after
much persuasion, she agrees to stay inside the room. And so ended day number
two.
We achieve little milestones as the days go by – the wails
eventually quiet down and she attends the class with tears silently streaming
down her face, her little hand gripped in mine, trailing behind me as I lead
the class through the different activities. The crying then stops and she starts
watching her classmates with a curious smile. Eventually she agrees to join, and
participates with a partner. Rehearsals begin and she slowly learns her part,
refusing to speak if alone, but executing all her lines and dances with a
classmate by her side. Then comes the day when her partner is absent and she
surprises us by doing all her parts on her own. Her movements are small, her voice a wee
whisper, but all the same, we know that these are huge, difficult steps for her.
We are proud, hopeful, and excited.
On the day of the show, I sense something is different. She
arrives early, and I see her take in the lights and set and our shadow theater
frame, her eyes softly lighting up. She excitedly goes to me for makeup and is
happy to have her picture taken. She then waits patiently for the show.
As the curtain rises on our version of the Little Prince,
she is a different person. She is not the Princess who walked into our
classroom weeks ago. She has transformed into her character, the beautiful but
haughty rose. She dances with joy and grace, and speaks her lines with volume,
energy, and emotion. Her eyes sparkle every time she comes out and she is
having such a blast! I watch in amazement, my heart swelling with pride. Here
is a young child who has realized her own power to communicate and tell
stories. She is blazing like a bright star, her joy and light brimming and
evident. She is changed – beautiful and confident and powerful, such a joy and
wonder to behold. She is the substance of everything we work so hard to impart to our students: that all are unique, all have something to share, and all have
the immense power to create. All they have to do is believe in themselves.
I am grateful for our small, intimate class set-up that
allows us to hold the hands of our students and take them on a journey that is
not too crowded or rushed, where they are free to grow in their own time. And just like the Little Prince who realizes that
his Rose is different from all the roses he could ever meet in the universe
because he himself has tended and cared for her, so do our students become special
and distinguished to us Make Believe teachers. At the end of the summer, we
know each one like the back of our hand because we have watered them, nurtured them, and tended to them. Each one is special, and each one is loved.
And we are always breathless and amazed when over time, they come into their
own…and just bloom. Just like my
little rose this summer, sweet little Princess J
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| Princess with her classmates |
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| Bonding with students at the end of a workshop |
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| Intimate class set-up allows for one-on-one guidance and a rich variety of activities |




wow amazing!!! such a cute and talented young lady. :)
ReplyDeleteShe really was, Jossah! She grew so much during the process and was such a joy to teach :-) Thanks for dropping by!
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